Silhouette of a man standing at a water's edge alone - can we combat extreme misogyny

Marie Kouppi



Extremist misogyny is a growing problem. A leaked Home Office report has identified the “manosphere” as a major factor in radicalisation. This online space includes men’s rights activists, pick-up artists, and incels (involuntary celibates). These groups claim men are victims of feminism while they spread hate, resentment, and, in some cases, violence.

Stopping them is difficult. Banning these groups can make them feel like persecuted outsiders. Direct confrontation can push them further into their beliefs. So what can be done? How do we stop the spread of extremist misogyny?

The Rise of the Manosphere

Many men feel lost, lonely or powerless. The manosphere offers them a sought-after community and a sense of purpose. But instead of support, it gives them anger and blame.

“The manosphere thrives because it offers a sense of purpose”

Figures like Andrew Tate exploit these feelings as they sell the idea that feminism has robbed men of their power. They claim the only way to succeed is through dominance and control. These messages are simple, emotional and appealing. Many young men, struggling with rejection or insecurity, are drawn in. Instead of reconciling their problems, they are told to blame women.

Warning Signs of Radicalisation

It is important to recognise when someone is engaging in extremist misogyny.

Some signs to watch for include:

1. Use of misogynistic language like femoid, simp or beta.

2. Withdrawal from friendships, relationships or social activities.

3. Fixation on manosphere influencers or online communities.

4. Hostility toward women, especially in conversations about gender issues.

These warning signs are being taken seriously. Teachers in the UK, like myself, are now trained to recognise incel culture in classrooms. Schools are on the front lines of prevention, because if young men are reached early, radicalisation can be stopped before it takes hold.

How to Stop the Spread of Extremist Misogyny

There is no single solution to this multifaceted problem. We must tackle it in many ways.

“These men need real help, not false promises from online extremists”

Education in Schools

Schools play a key role. Teaching respect, emotional intelligence and gender equality from a young age can prevent toxic beliefs. London’s Mayor Sadiq Khan has called for primary schools to address online misogyny. Stopping the problem early is more effective than trying to fix it later.

Encouraging Open Conversations

Shaming young men for their beliefs can make things worse. Many feel unheard, so dismissing them may push them further into extremist spaces. Therefore, it is important to listen. Ask questions. Encourage critical thinking. Help them see the flaws in manosphere ideology without attacking them.

Promoting Positive Male Role Models

The manosphere presents a toxic version of masculinity, as it values power, aggression and control. Young men need better role models. Strength is not about dominance; strength can be kindness, respect and emotional intelligence. We need to show that masculinity does not have to be toxic.

Teaching Digital Awareness

Many people do not realise how manipulative online content can be. Schools and parents must teach young people to question what they see online. Who created this content? What is their goal? Is it based on facts or emotions? Digital literacy is key to resisting extremist messaging.

Expanding Mental Health Support

Many young men in the manosphere are struggling. They feel rejected, isolated or hopeless and look for answers in the wrong places. What they need is more mental health support, such as therapy and mentorship, which can offer healthier solutions. These men need real help, not false promises from online extremists.

Should We Ban Manosphere Influencers?

Banning toxic influencers may seem like an easy solution. But it can backfire! Removing these figures from mainstream platforms redirects them to smaller, unregulated spaces and prompts their followers to see it as proof that they are being silenced.

This can make them more extreme!

Free speech must be balanced with public safety”

Instead, experts suggest focusing on behaviour—banning hate speech, harassment and incitement to violence. Rather than removing all manosphere content, stopping direct harm is a better focus. Free speech must be balanced with public safety.

Combatting Extremist Misogyny Must Be A Collective Effort

Extremist misogyny is not just an online issue – it is a growing cultural problem. Schools, families and governments must work together. Young men need better options. They need role models, guidance and support.

The manosphere thrives because it offers a sense of purpose. It tells men they are part of a movement. Instead of allowing hate to fill that gap, society must provide better alternatives. Masculinity is not about hating women. It is about respect, resilience, and emotional strength. Promoting these values will strip extremist misogyny of its power.

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Marie, the Cypriot Instagram editor of Empoword Journalism✨ Currently a teacher but silently crying about my PhD about ‘British Morals and their Impact on Societal Censorship in Arts!

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