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Marie Kouppi

Our well-being thrives on the bonds we share with our friends, right? But let’s be real, keeping those connections strong across long distances can feel like a wild ride.

While it may take more effort to maintain long-distance friendships, technology has made it easier than ever to stay connected with loved ones no matter where they are in the world. Setting aside time for regular video calls or planning visits can help keep the friendship alive and thriving.

In today’s hyper-connected world, long-distance friendships are becoming the norm. But fear not! With the right mindset and a few tricks up your sleeve, you can keep those friendships going strong, no matter the distance. So, grab your virtual map, because we’re about to navigate this journey together.

@adelinehkim

long distance is hard 🥲

♬ Better Things (Sped Up Version) – aespa

Step 1: Keep the Chat Flowing

Communication is the secret sauce to keeping the friendship bright. Make it a habit to stay in touch through video calls, heartfelt texts, and regular updates. Trust me, keeping those channels open is like sending a care package of warmth and empathy across the miles. Experiment with different communication platforms that suit both you and your friend. From social media to texting apps, find what works and stick with it. And hey, schedule those virtual hangouts like it’s your favourite Netflix show – whether it’s weekly catch-ups or monthly game nights, keeping that rhythm alive is key.

Oh, and when you chat, really listen. Show genuine interest in your friend’s life and share your own stories too. Remember, it’s not just about how often you talk, but the depth of your connection that truly counts. So, keep the conversation meaningful and engaging to strengthen your bond even from afar. And don’t forget to send little surprises or thoughtful gestures now and then to show your friend how much you care.

Step 2: Long Distance Time Zones? No Problem!

Time zones can be a real pain, but don’t let them rain on your friendship parade. Embrace empathy and flexibility, and find those sweet spots in your schedules where you can hang out virtually. It’s all about give and take, so take turns initiating conversations when it works for both of you. Asynchronous communication is your new BFF. Send voice messages, shoot off emails – keep that connection alive even when you’re not online at the same time.

Don’t forget to celebrate special moments like birthdays and holidays, even if you’re miles apart. Surprise online parties? Yes, please! Remember, distance doesn’t have to mean disconnection. Stay creative with how you maintain your friendship, whether it’s through virtual game nights or watching movies together online. The effort you put in will only strengthen your bond and make the distance feel a little bit smaller.

Step 3: Get Creative with Long Distance Connection

Think outside the chat box! Get creative with how you stay connected. Send surprise care packages filled with inside jokes, photos, and little trinkets that remind you of your friendship. Plan virtual movie nights where you sync up your favourite flicks and chat about them afterwards. Explore shared hobbies and interests by starting a virtual book club or challenging each other to try new recipes. Consider starting a collaborative project together, such as writing a story or creating a playlist of songs that represent your friendship. These shared experiences will not only keep you connected but also create lasting memories to cherish. Remember, distance is just a physical barrier that can be overcome with creativity and effort.

Step 4: Build Shared Long Distance Memories

While you may be physically apart, you can still create meaningful memories together. Plan trips to visit each other when possible, exploring new places and creating unforgettable experiences. Document your adventures with photos and videos, creating digital scrapbooks that you can look back on fondly. Although distance separates you, the opportunity to craft cherished memories together remains within reach. By building shared memories, you can strengthen your bond and create a strong foundation for your relationship. Remember to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and experiences to keep the connection alive.

Step 5: Support Each Other’s Goals

Encourage each other’s dreams and aspirations, even from a distance. Be there to celebrate successes and offer support during challenging times. Whether it’s cheering each other on from afar or lending a listening ear when needed, knowing you have a friend in your corner can make all the difference. Again, remember to actively listen and show genuine interest in your partner’s goals and aspirations. By being a supportive and encouraging presence in each other’s lives, you can help each other grow and thrive individually as well as together.

 

@jodilov

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♬ Everything Works Out in the end instrumental – scars

Long-distance friendships might have their challenges, but they’re also full of growth and resilience. So, keep navigating those miles with clarity, adaptability, and unwavering understanding. True connections never fade, no matter how far apart you are. So, keep those friendship fires burning bright.

Let’s continue to make time for regular communication and find creative ways to stay connected, whether through video calls, letters, or surprise care packages. Distance may physically separate us, but our bond can remain strong with effort and commitment. Let’s cherish the unique dynamic of our long-distance friendship and continue to support each other through life’s ups and downs. 

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Marie, the Cypriot Instagram editor of Empoword Journalism✨ Currently a teacher but silently crying about my PhD about ‘British Morals and their Impact on Societal Censorship in Arts!

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